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WHY I USED TO HATE BOYS..
     Like as i told you in my past blog that i used to hate boy.So i am here to tell my reason why i used to hate boys.When was small like of four-five years i went to a relative's home and when my mom touch the feet of an old lady that lady said '' be happy and next time god bless you with a son''. And i didn't understand that time that why she is saying like that and it is very weird moment for everyone.And laterly i understood that why she said like that because i was the first girl  child in the house and they want a boy .I DON'T understnd why some people are so obssessive for boys ? When my mom was pregnant for the second time some of my relative used to say me to pray to God to gift me with a small brother, like what? just think they are saying this stupide thing to a five years old girl .I used to igoner this type of thing and pray to god that give me a friend who can be there every time when ever i need .And i was gifted with a little cute sister. Me and my dad were very happy ,having a bright faces but i can't find same reaction from my relatives ,i hate relatives! .And at the moment i enter my mom's room she said me onething ''you didn't pray to God ''and this question took away all my happiness.And this gave rise to my hate feelings for boys.Why everyone want them?where it is written that people with boys are happier then who have girl and why this type of discrimination?.and the year when nirbhaya's case took place ,i was shock ,what happend with her ,after listening to all rape cases do you think that their was reason to not to hate boys for a small  five year girl ,just put your self iin my place or i don't think that you need to do that because once in the life time their is the moment that you have also faced that  ,that compaires! .My childhood passed by hateing boys and always compaired by them.But i don't want that my sister or the next genreation face the same thing .
       But when i grow up i slowly start understanding that all people are not same and their are good mans as an example of my father who is proud to be the father of two daughters and their are many examples .So being a teenager my view towards this topic is changed .So i don't hate them as compair to my childhood but it don't mean that i love them .So its enough for today i will share more interesting thing with you .So stay with me.
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