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Relationships.....                          R elationship is the most complicated ship. Relationship is between two person. And this ship is not a responsibility of a single person its about both of them. If you want to sail this ship ,you need to know your flaws,and your partner's too and accept them. But if you don't ,your ship will not reach to its destination or your ship can also be drown in the middle of your way. Their are many relationships but today I want to put limelight of the relationship of life partners. Life partner the word tells its meaning by its own . A person with we can spend our remaining life peaceful. Yes, they might be some problems but these 3 things can settle the problem. Love ,respect and trust . They are the pillars on which you can relie your life with your partner and it will be as easy as you can spell banana. But in our tradition, we do arrange marriages ,In which the whole relationship starts with lie. Lie can help you to set with

WE ALL GET DARK TIMES.. ...         WE ALL GET THE TIME ,when we are alone ,when there is no one ,when we really need someone back . But there no one.  We are searching for hope of light in dark room and we get nothing .  Life always don't give us what we want but we should never lose hopes cause hope is the biggest weapon we can use against darkness. But sometimes we become afraid to share our thoughts and to raise our hopes . And we leave ourself alone in dark and depressing situations. But there some lucky people in life who are gifted with some guiding angles. These guiding angels not only light up the candles in that dark room but also hold  your hands and stay with you till you stand up with all your hopes and strength . These people never want something in return. They only want to help you and want to see happiness in your face . All are not so lucky to have someone who do things without a favor in return.              But if you don't have a guiding person,

GIRL AND MONEY              KING AND QUEENS in past use to send gift and luxurious thing to there daughter's in laws home cause they want to show there power and pride but the ordinary people started following that and we are following it till now as stupid goats. If you are giving gifts willingly with your love and blessings there is no problem but if that gift is brought by spending there whole life savings is not a blessing for a girl .You know in india, people take loan to educate there boys and for marriage of there daughters. And this system of giving dowry becomes a headache for parents which raises hate rate towards there girls. Some use to kill them and some married them to the one whose dowry rate is low. Don't you feel ? Don't you know that girls is not a business or thing which you can exchange , and returns of what ?what do you give her respect , money, name ? No . You don't even give her love or talk with manners so money is far away.  You love

  When you starts living for others happiness and that person choose someone else, and leaves you behind and alone its the worse feeling.               When I happily goes downstairs and search her at that moment I was happier than ever but as I turned my eyes and saw her with them sitting, giggling and ignoring me. I was devastated at that moment every thing got paused and I feel to just slap her ,I was losing my mind and than she caught an eye with me , I thought that she will wave or call me but she saw me and gave a sarcastic smile and joined them again.  I turned back and sat on the bench alone and there was tears in my eyes and my full body was shivering, I was unable to eat  and when I see in front i see people having fun with their friends laughing and when they see you they pity on your condition. Just put yourself in my place and enjoy the view where every unknown faces are looking at you and you are alone . I was unable to make any eye contact with anyone so I pu

LIFELINES         This lifelines doesn't mean the game one ,lifelines are which add little glitters in life ,they make life quite bearable. and belive me we all have the one ,for some its their family ,for someone its a beloved person or for someone a person far away from them who doesn't  know about you but you know its whole history .and we feel pleased ,cause for sometime you get a reason to laugh to notice yourself , and i know its not senseable to think but sometimes humans love's to waste there time .But logicaly its not a waste of time cause its make you feel happy . my qusetion is still unanswered that a person sitting long away can affect a person's  life .And if you don't have a person like lifeline so don't worry cause i know you can be you own lifeline .      wake up for yourself, to make yourself feel confident , to explore your self ,cause lifeline works like this ,its improve yourself i got my temperaly lifeline and he really makes me

MAN SHOULD ACT LIKE A MAN ?                              God has created us equally they give all of us same feeling yeah physically we made the firm but emotionally we all are same we all of appeals same feelings we feel sadness we feel hatred we feel love we feel proud etc but why there is a stereotype set for everyone there is a stereotype set for everyone by the society girls should be like this and boy should be like this girl should be quite silent beautiful obedient and boy should be like man should act like a man right don't you think ok that this rules a set by them whom we don't know but we follow them like a fool and what does this sentence mean man should act like a man and you know in this in this sentence man means what stereotype have set for a man and this stereotype doesn't include respect women respect everyone support them no they don't this stereotype include that look a boy should not be clean shaved a boy should not wear a makeup a boy

I LOVE YOU        I love you ,the three magical words which everyone wants to hear,and speacilly in their teenage and yet same thing happend to me. As i entered in teenage life as i told you my friends started to be in relatioonships and i was far behind left .Yes , and this made me desparate , i use to seek boys in marriages not everyone but them whom seem to see my type ,this was oocuering between 13 and 14. Yeah, i know it sounds ridiculous but please don't judeg me now. I was deseprate to listen these 3 word and all stupid hopes were given by movies .My mind was going straight ,a strangeer will meet me somewhere then he will fall in love and then happily after sounds so simple but not,it's not simple and love in a first sight it's all fake. Never gonaa happend.It made me to depress that i started thinking about my friend's brother and it really sucks, yeah,when i think now , i laugh out loud .Even i have not seen his face but than i realise that how nai

MODERN PARENTING ?           Parenting is hard, i don't know but as parents says but if i write in the child perspative sometimes parenting is made hard by parents. Now days parents compair their child with other students, from childhood onwards they put us in competation,which we have no idea, and they don't ask the participant that they really want to join the race or not .But i don't blame them they, think that they do it for the benefit of child but there are many ways to upbring the child intsed of putting them in compeation, but laterly when i grow up i understand that they put us in competation not only for our benifits but also for there name .Proof is that see their are many example of students doing jEE and NEET unwillingly and some did their ouccupation choice againest what they want to be. They put us in the competation at so early age that we start thinking that life is a race .Every child love their parents unconditionaly ,child never,never in thei

DO KNOW WHY?BUT BESTIES                Friendship is a ship which help you to sail even in  diffecult moments ,how heavy the sadness stom will be but this ship never let you down. I started saiing on this ship when i was in kindagarden yeah ,my first day of school ,crying as we all normally do ,i was unable to eat my lunch cause of crying badly ,i sat down in the ground with unknown faces, lonely and then a face turn towards me ,'' do you wanna play out-out ?''and with my slathering voice i said ''yes''.We both hold each others hand and walk ,and from that day till today we never leave each others hand and i wish not in the future .Her name is Areeba ,yeah i can take her name cause she is my best friend and i have all rights.when we were child we were unaware about that how long this friendship will go but we were there always for each other.And here the problem starts.As we grow up we realies that how DIFFERENT,we are from each other ,she

GOOD GIRL!         You take birth in this socity and from at early age people starts saying about thing which good girl or good boy sshould do but as we grow up the meaning of good girls and good boys changes .And this qualities are not like save the world,peace ,our civil duties or about our enviroment ,never or it may be but i didn't seen it ,back to the points.as we grow up the parameters of judging boys and girls changes .But why? if a boy is roming out with boys or witth girls he is not looked as the same way as a girl .If he is with friends so people talks that he is populer or have a ledership quailites and if the same thing is done by a girl i don't need to tell what shit they speak form their tashbin ,words like witch, shamless girls and etc.why no same treatment? he can talk loudly ,he can laugh loudly ,he is allowed everythings and here with girls telling them things what good girl should know talk slowly ,laugh quietly ,don't see someone or smile in

UNKNOWN FEELING...           If you have read my past blogs so you know about my past crushs ,but this blog is not about them its about him .He is my present cursh and i don't want to includ his name ,so for us ,he is 'mr.curly head'. As i told y'll that my crushs doesn't last more than 1 and half month or maximum 2 month but he has break the record ,its been 3 months ,yeah.But i never felt like this before or ever .So i can say that he is my 1st serious crush and i'm not writing to tell how ADORABLE he is ,am writing this to share what thing am facing about the unknown feelings. It started as normally as everone starts and i thought that after few weeks i'll forget him but slowly  i started seeing his pics everyday ,started liking his songs and many morr stupid stuffs.as eenages do you all know,right?          But now i think he has become my habit good or bad no idea.I laugh ON his stupid jokes,sees his pics .Their is a long smile stick to my

 CRUSH...         As i enter in teenage life i got to know a new term name 'crush'.I don't know the meaning of it ,cause i only know the meaning of crush which is used in accidents like car crush,and candy crush .My friend asked me one day who is your crush ? and i remember i said with an accident no i don't have anyone ,and now i understand that why she laughed so hard.But this meaning also match with that meaning ,accidently you see some one and started likeing him or her.so i'ts a kind of accidents,right? so laterly i got to know about the true meaning of it ,and if someone don't know so let me tell you, when you like someone secreatly and not let him know so that person whom you like is know as crush .And their is differences between crush and love .According to studies when you have a crush on someone more than 4 months so that means that you have fallin' for that person. I to have crushs, yeah, crushs cause my crushs doesn't last for mo

     Beauty ;a word that means the quality of being very pleasing to senses or an attractive feature or personality.         Beauty lies in eye of the beholder this proverb we have leaned in lower classes but how many of us relate with .How many of us can truly say that they have never juged anyone by their looks .Frankly speaking even i don't ,because our socity make us to do that, from childhood what we see we do that ,the movies are made for our entertinment but we started jugdeing people on that bases its true ? According to a survey done in america that out of 85/100 girls are not happy with there looks, when they ask the reason so the answer was that one or the another day their friends make them feel incomfortable about there weight and looks' .That they don't match with  perfact things which idol girl have .In india the case is same jugde them on their cloths ,on their looks and espeacily for girl 'cause boys are perfect they don't do any wrong t

HAPPILY SINGLE        Being a teenager is very tough .People thinks that it is very easy but you should ask a teenager of this generation.In this compatitive world their is competition  in every field like  in eveything .Being a girl who spend her life's 12 years in a girls' school i have exprienced differend stuff ,and the most thing i heard is all 'bout relationships specialy from 7th class .Our class was of 56 students and out of them 36 was in relationships,like it was a omg moment when i counted and awked also. Every day i used to listen some or the other stories about them and their love life and its a weired feeling for a 'single' girl to join this types of groups because we don't have stuff to talk to them and this feeling a 'single' girl will definetly understand .My intenions is not to judge  the girls but things happend with me, i am sharing that. So i stop joining that groups and whenever they see me so they change the topic or i

WHY I USED TO HATE BOYS..      Like as i told you in my past blog that i used to hate boy.So i am here to tell my reason why i used to hate boys.When was small like of four-five years i went to a relative's home and when my mom touch the feet of an old lady that lady said '' be happy and next time god bless you with a son''. And i didn't understand that time that why she is saying like that and it is very weird moment for everyone.And laterly i understood that why she said like that because i was the first girl  child in the house and they want a boy .I DON'T understnd why some people are so obssessive for boys ? When my mom was pregnant for the second time some of my relative used to say me to pray to God to gift me with a small brother, like what? just think they are saying this stupide thing to a five years old girl .I used to igoner this type of thing and pray to god that give me a friend who can be there every time when ever i need .And i wa

WHEN I ENTER IN TEENAGE...       TEENAGE ,people say that its start from 13 age and end in 19.. but  i understand that teenage is a period where changes occure.. and not only some but many changes ,emotional,physical and our mental view point.And if we see so teenage is the period where the child actually starts growing up.This time we face some new thing in life like puberty, we all what is puberty.!  This time we face many different concept.     when i enter in my teenge  life so i was the late  in my class because i was one year younger than my classmate.And my experiancen was very different ,there was a friend of mine in my class who was having same zodic , we used to practies dance in our school corridoors.When i was back form my summer hoildays i mat her but now i don't know what happend but i was taller then her and i remember well that she was taller then me ,i felt like i have some superpowers or the complan which i used to drink form childhood have stared work

 I STARTED THINKING ABOUT LOVE ....     WHEN I WAS SMALL ,I USED TO WATCH MANY BOLLYWOOD MOVIES ......AND MOVIES TAUGTH US MANY THING .AND BOLLYWOOD MOVIES ARE MAXIMAM ABOUT HERO ,HEROINS AND THERE PROBLMES.....DON'T YOU AGREE WITH ME .        I took this topic because this is a week of love as people say but i don't agree with them bcoz i don't think there should be a day to express love to anyone....God gifted us so good life so why only one  day to spread love? but we live here so we need to follow somethings.        And love ..when i say this word people starts imaging a girl and a boy...as i said our movies have capture our mind we only see what they wanted to show us...i will talk on this topice afterwards,so back on love!       SO what is love ?...... love is a feeling which make us feel special ,important,and etc you can google it.But today people have forgotted the true means of love .Meeting someone only for showing your friend that you are also follo

I Palak , people also know me as pal and  various name kept by them.. but for you i am Pal..this is my first blog ,and in my blogs i will share my experiance with you .       It all about my thougths when i entre in my teenage form childhood...the craze things happend with me and when started thinking about the issuse we use to face in our day to day life ..... when i started thinking about myself , when i started thinking about my life ..and also how my point of view starts changing about others....               This is only a introductroy of my upcoming blogs........And if you want that there are some topices which you wanted that should get limelight so you can tell me .       so i will met you here every week....and if my words and thougth hurt you in any case so sorry before ,because here i will share my views and everyones view can't be same.......so bye for now..... AND ONE THING NEVER STOP DREAMING........