PARENTING..

MODERN PARENTING ?

         Parenting is hard, i don't know but as parents says but if i write in the child perspative sometimes parenting is made hard by parents. Now days parents compair their child with other students,

from childhood onwards they put us in competation,which we have no idea, and they don't ask the participant that they really want to join the race or not .But i don't blame them they, think that they do it for the benefit of child but there are many ways to upbring the child intsed of putting them in compeation, but laterly when i grow up i understand that they put us in competation not only for our benifits but also for there name .Proof is that see their are many example of students doing jEE and NEET unwillingly and some did their ouccupation choice againest what they want to be. They put us in the competation at so early age that we start thinking that life is a race .Every child love their parents unconditionaly ,child never,never in their life wants that their parents think that we don't worth them ,no one wants to see that their parents is dispointed by them ,and we start doing what they like even we don't want to do it but to see the proud smile on there face .

       And some succeed in it and some they don't.And in both the case the child is not happy ,the one who succeed gets compaired by others if he had not came first and the one who fails he thinks  he failed to live, cause who succeed is compaired so think what will happen with the fail once and he thinks their is only one way to escape to see the dispointment on their parents face so he takes its life close his eyes forever and also fail to live his life.Parents put us on a competation for our welfare but if beside being a parent if , 'if' once they say child don't take this competation as your life ,life is too long and everyday is a new day to start ,and if you fail than also you will see us on your side. But todays fast life is so busy that parent tell everything leaveing this line. Parents say that now days childers don't understand their parents but do they try to understand the child. They says in olden times our parents never became our friend so why do now? but they forget that their were no competation for a child in that timee as compaired to now. And they ask what do we need ?

        WE ONLY NEED YOU ,BUT IN THE PLACE OF BEST FRIENDS, WE WENT TO SHARE EVERY THING WITH YOU AND WANT YOU TO LISTEN LIKE OUR FRIEND AND IF YOU THINK THAT SOMETHING IS WRONG SO ADVISE US.TO LET US ENJOY OUR CHILHOOD.