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JOINED FAMILY

WHEN I THINK ABOUT JOINED FAMILY. 
     I WILL START FROM STARTING like when i was a baby i never saw a joined happy family..Like we use to live in joined family but not happy ,everyday their was fights and noises ,when i was five we started living seprately like a nucler family .After seeing the fights, i used to think that i am happier then those people living in joined family .I love to avoid reletives and love to not attend family get togethers,because i started loving to live alone .ME ,my sister and our parents,and also my dog brozoo.BROZOO weird  name  ,right my mom kept ,i am still not agree but what can i say?. 
       But a year before  last year ,i got a chance to attend my cousine brother's wedding .He was my mom's sister's son ,so it was compolsory to go as it was mom's order,so we went 'it was very hard to leave my dog for so many days..Only i know the pain.AND we went to my anut's house and what i saw that was horriable,like not in bad way but not in good way also .I saw my cousines laying down on the floor ,one on the sofa, two in washroom,five in kitchine and my aunts at the main gate doing preperation .And when my cousine saw me, they took my name uproariously and i was stock to see them all together my bros ,siss and their pet maggie ,she is a dog.It was my life's first wedding which i am attending in a proper manner.I saw all the programms and also be the part of every event .At night we used to have dinner together and in day time when IF we find the event boring so we all cousine used to come in one room and play games,sing songs ,tease each other,i didn't know how time flies with them and i got new friends. Aman ,my cousine and i had good bond he tease me and i tease him back and it was so fun to do this useless things i never know.
      After the wedding was over this was the time to say goodbye to all ,i am very strong person but when i sat in the taxi to go ,i was having tears in my eyes ,i never thought that i will miss them to much .The way when i was in the taxi to return all the moments they where flashing in front of my eyes.and then i thought that how much love and care was given me during this time is unexplaineable.HAVING A BIG FAMILY IS NOT TO BAD ? 
    THAT MOMENT I REALISE THE FAMILY LOVE IS IMPORTANT AND I AM STILL WAITING TO RELIVE THAT FEELING.SO IF YOU HAVE A FAMILY SMALL OR BIG NO MATTERS ,,IMPORTANT IS THAT HOW YOU LOVE THEM AND GAVE THEM TIME.SO LOVE THEM ,GAVE THEM TIME HOW MUCH YOU CAN BECAUSE  EVERYONE IS NOT LUCKY LIKE YOU.
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