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MAN SHOULD BE MAN?

MAN SHOULD ACT LIKE A MAN ?           
                  God has created us equally they give all of us same feeling yeah physically we made the firm but emotionally we all are same we all of appeals same feelings we feel sadness we feel hatred we feel love we feel proud etc but why there is a stereotype set for everyone there is a stereotype set for everyone by the society girls should be like this and boy should be like this girl should be quite silent beautiful obedient and boy should be like man should act like a man right don't you think ok that this rules a set by them whom we don't know but we follow them like a fool and what does this sentence mean man should act like a man and you know in this in this sentence man means what stereotype have set for a man and this stereotype doesn't include respect women respect everyone support them no they don't this stereotype include that look a boy should not be clean shaved a boy should not wear a makeup a boy should not wear earring a boy should not cry a boy should not overreact a boy should not tell his feelings cause these are the rules of the stereotype mentality of the society and we all follow the same
             But I don't think that this thinking should you rule us cause this rules are made by humans not for humans we made them and we can change them and I think if boys if men start start expressing their emotions if they feel the pain automatically they will start respecting others also and this will make a change in this world for everyone and I will not deny when I was a child I also used to think the same but as I grow up as I entered in this teenage life I think that there is stereotype mentality is ruled by everyone but we need to change cores world is changing and criticizing them who are not according to you is not the solution for anything let the people live how they wanted to however they want to without judging them if you want to judge them judge by their qualities not by the outer appearance that you see

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