KING AND QUEENS in past use to send gift and luxurious thing to there daughter's in laws home cause they want to show there power and pride but the ordinary people started following that and we are following it till now as stupid goats. If you are giving gifts willingly with your love and blessings there is no problem but if that gift is brought by spending there whole life savings is not a blessing for a girl .You know in india, people take loan to educate there boys and for marriage of there daughters. And this system of giving dowry becomes a headache for parents which raises hate rate towards there girls. Some use to kill them and some married them to the one whose dowry rate is low. Don't you feel ? Don't you know that girls is not a business or thing which you can exchange , and returns of what ?what do you give her respect , money, name ? No . You don't even give her love or talk with manners so money is far away. You love your pride and free stuff and return making that girl suffer with pain with your sword like words and expect her to give birth to a boy . Why ? God never told us this ,nor he mentioned in any of his holy books. When I ask my dad will you give dowry? And he answered that if I study hard so he will never have to give it . I was a child that time . But when I see now, girls do every thing to make their parents proud but ends up with marrying a unknown guy and tangled in this tradition.
Fearless saying I am crying right now and even while writing this , cause whatever we do if we don't prove us we are going to stuck cause in our country changes are not acceptable. Girls are pride of there family, and only not for there house also but also where they got marry and if the boy family want them so they should respect them, and the family of boy should give gifts to the girl's family cause its there loss. The girl leaves every thing her family, her friend, her freedom, her dreams, her hopes and even her name and what she gets ? Ask this to yourself, cause guys we live in double standard society were every one pretend to be modern but when the times come they became what we were in 1910s.
Fearless saying I am crying right now and even while writing this , cause whatever we do if we don't prove us we are going to stuck cause in our country changes are not acceptable. Girls are pride of there family, and only not for there house also but also where they got marry and if the boy family want them so they should respect them, and the family of boy should give gifts to the girl's family cause its there loss. The girl leaves every thing her family, her friend, her freedom, her dreams, her hopes and even her name and what she gets ? Ask this to yourself, cause guys we live in double standard society were every one pretend to be modern but when the times come they became what we were in 1910s.
Please stop this i don't want that girls in future will also face the same humiliation as we and our past girls face.
you got the write penning dear.always
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