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ARRANGE MARRIAGE .

Relationships.....       
                  Relationship is the most complicated ship. Relationship is between two person. And this ship is not a responsibility of a single person its about both of them. If you want to sail this ship ,you need to know your flaws,and your partner's too and accept them. But if you don't ,your ship will not reach to its destination or your ship can also be drown in the middle of your way. Their are many relationships but today I want to put limelight of the relationship of life partners. Life partner the word tells its meaning by its own. A person with we can spend our remaining life peaceful. Yes, they might be some problems but these 3 things can settle the problem. Love ,respect and trust. They are the pillars on which you can relie your life with your partner and it will be as easy as you can spell banana. But in our tradition, we do arrange marriages ,In which the whole relationship starts with lie. Lie can help you to set with someone but lie is a lie and it will  come out some or the other day. Now , they have made marriage a joke. They built-up a wall of lie in front of the partner and after wards when they try to know each other the bricks of their wall start hitting on their head.
                In arrange marriage, the two individuals don't know each other so there is no chance of love ,and relatives starts building up the wall of lie . Because of the lie they starts liking each other and there is a huge difference in loving and liking someone. By seeing the beautiful wall of lie they decides to spend their life together but when the wall starts breaking, the trust also starts cracking up. And when they see each other without the wall they are not ready to accept the flaws which was hidden by the wall . And this is how they lose respect for each other. But now it like a practice, done all over in the name of tradition. Tradition changes its structure by time. But they don't understand that this can ruin their life . Every one have their own point of view, I am not against of arrange marriage or any marriage but things like this is called as fraud not arranging marriage. I think they should be given a chance to know each other, to develop respect towards each other, to build trust and to love each other. Because as it is said marriage is not  between to people, its between two families. 
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