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DO KNOW WHY?BUT BESTIES                Friendship is a ship which help you to sail even in  diffecult moments ,how heavy the sadness stom will be but this ship never let you down. I started saiing on this ship when i was in kindagarden yeah ,my first day of school ,crying as we all normally do ,i was unable to eat my lunch cause of crying badly ,i sat down in the ground with unknown faces, lonely and then a face turn towards me ,'' do you wanna play out-out ?''and with my slathering voice i said ''yes''.We both hold each others hand and walk ,and from that day till today we never leave each others hand and i wish not in the future .Her name is Areeba ,yeah i can take her name cause she is my best friend and i have all rights.when we were child we were unaware about that how long this friendship will go but we were there always for each other.And here the problem starts.As we grow up we realies that how DIFFERENT,we are from each other ,she

GOOD GIRL!         You take birth in this socity and from at early age people starts saying about thing which good girl or good boy sshould do but as we grow up the meaning of good girls and good boys changes .And this qualities are not like save the world,peace ,our civil duties or about our enviroment ,never or it may be but i didn't seen it ,back to the points.as we grow up the parameters of judging boys and girls changes .But why? if a boy is roming out with boys or witth girls he is not looked as the same way as a girl .If he is with friends so people talks that he is populer or have a ledership quailites and if the same thing is done by a girl i don't need to tell what shit they speak form their tashbin ,words like witch, shamless girls and etc.why no same treatment? he can talk loudly ,he can laugh loudly ,he is allowed everythings and here with girls telling them things what good girl should know talk slowly ,laugh quietly ,don't see someone or smile in

UNKNOWN FEELING...           If you have read my past blogs so you know about my past crushs ,but this blog is not about them its about him .He is my present cursh and i don't want to includ his name ,so for us ,he is 'mr.curly head'. As i told y'll that my crushs doesn't last more than 1 and half month or maximum 2 month but he has break the record ,its been 3 months ,yeah.But i never felt like this before or ever .So i can say that he is my 1st serious crush and i'm not writing to tell how ADORABLE he is ,am writing this to share what thing am facing about the unknown feelings. It started as normally as everone starts and i thought that after few weeks i'll forget him but slowly  i started seeing his pics everyday ,started liking his songs and many morr stupid stuffs.as eenages do you all know,right?          But now i think he has become my habit good or bad no idea.I laugh ON his stupid jokes,sees his pics .Their is a long smile stick to my

 CRUSH...         As i enter in teenage life i got to know a new term name 'crush'.I don't know the meaning of it ,cause i only know the meaning of crush which is used in accidents like car crush,and candy crush .My friend asked me one day who is your crush ? and i remember i said with an accident no i don't have anyone ,and now i understand that why she laughed so hard.But this meaning also match with that meaning ,accidently you see some one and started likeing him or her.so i'ts a kind of accidents,right? so laterly i got to know about the true meaning of it ,and if someone don't know so let me tell you, when you like someone secreatly and not let him know so that person whom you like is know as crush .And their is differences between crush and love .According to studies when you have a crush on someone more than 4 months so that means that you have fallin' for that person. I to have crushs, yeah, crushs cause my crushs doesn't last for mo

Your one word          Talking is the best way of communication and the fastest after telepatie . And you have listen this proverb that action speak louder than word but sometimes your one word is enough to destroy someones life. The world powerful weapone who can shake up your soul internaly and whos marks can never be heal is words .Your words can make anyones life and can devastates once life . Word are very powerful ,its like an enengy like a power inside you ,you just have control it if you get the idea to how to control it you solve your 50% problems in your life . But who can't control their word they have the ablity to destroy their and everyone's life whom they are connected .And here dertroy doesn't mean only physical harm or mood swings, i means mental illness ,depression 'anxity, negetive thoughs and suside. I'm talking about bullying , i don't understand how a person can distube a person in this manner where he loses the hope to live, a

PERFECT WORLD.....?                       W hat is perfect ? a thing which have everything means every quality flawless. And everyone wishes for a perfect life,perfect job, perfect family, perfect friend, perfect personality,perfect body and perfect partner . So i just thinking that if one day god listen our wishes and make this world perfect oh ,he made this world perfect let me correct myself if he makes the people perfect so what will happen? yeah, ofcause everyone will be perfect , they will have every qualities , they will be perfect in everything academics, personality, looks etc.Just imaging you open the door and enter in room where all perfect people are standing, all good looking men and women so what will be your reaction? let me tell you what normally every being going to do, they will first be excited but then, sit in the coner and be bore cause everything is perfect there will be nothing to talk ,nothing to gossip and nothing to laugh cause we laugh only in im

     Beauty ;a word that means the quality of being very pleasing to senses or an attractive feature or personality.         Beauty lies in eye of the beholder this proverb we have leaned in lower classes but how many of us relate with .How many of us can truly say that they have never juged anyone by their looks .Frankly speaking even i don't ,because our socity make us to do that, from childhood what we see we do that ,the movies are made for our entertinment but we started jugdeing people on that bases its true ? According to a survey done in america that out of 85/100 girls are not happy with there looks, when they ask the reason so the answer was that one or the another day their friends make them feel incomfortable about there weight and looks' .That they don't match with  perfact things which idol girl have .In india the case is same jugde them on their cloths ,on their looks and espeacily for girl 'cause boys are perfect they don't do any wrong t

HAPPILY SINGLE        Being a teenager is very tough .People thinks that it is very easy but you should ask a teenager of this generation.In this compatitive world their is competition  in every field like  in eveything .Being a girl who spend her life's 12 years in a girls' school i have exprienced differend stuff ,and the most thing i heard is all 'bout relationships specialy from 7th class .Our class was of 56 students and out of them 36 was in relationships,like it was a omg moment when i counted and awked also. Every day i used to listen some or the other stories about them and their love life and its a weired feeling for a 'single' girl to join this types of groups because we don't have stuff to talk to them and this feeling a 'single' girl will definetly understand .My intenions is not to judge  the girls but things happend with me, i am sharing that. So i stop joining that groups and whenever they see me so they change the topic or i

WHEN I THINK ABOUT JOINED FAMILY.        I WILL START FROM STARTING like when i was a baby i never saw a joined happy family..Like we use to live in joined family but not happy ,everyday their was fights and noises ,when i was five we started living seprately like a nucler family .After seeing the fights, i used to think that i am happier then those people living in joined family .I love to avoid reletives and love to not attend family get togethers,because i started loving to live alone .ME ,my sister and our parents,and also my dog brozoo.BROZOO weird  name  ,right my mom kept ,i am still not agree but what can i say?.         Bu t a year before  last year ,i got a chance to attend my cousine brother's wedding .He was my mom's sister's son ,so it was compolsory to go as it was mom's order,so we went 'it was very hard to leave my dog for so many days..Only i know the pain.AND we went to my anut's house and what i saw that was horriable,like not in b

WHY I USED TO HATE BOYS..      Like as i told you in my past blog that i used to hate boy.So i am here to tell my reason why i used to hate boys.When was small like of four-five years i went to a relative's home and when my mom touch the feet of an old lady that lady said '' be happy and next time god bless you with a son''. And i didn't understand that time that why she is saying like that and it is very weird moment for everyone.And laterly i understood that why she said like that because i was the first girl  child in the house and they want a boy .I DON'T understnd why some people are so obssessive for boys ? When my mom was pregnant for the second time some of my relative used to say me to pray to God to gift me with a small brother, like what? just think they are saying this stupide thing to a five years old girl .I used to igoner this type of thing and pray to god that give me a friend who can be there every time when ever i need .And i wa