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WE ALL GET DARK TIMES.. ...         WE ALL GET THE TIME ,when we are alone ,when there is no one ,when we really need someone back . But there no one.  We are searching for hope of light in dark room and we get nothing .  Life always don't give us what we want but we should never lose hopes cause hope is the biggest weapon we can use against darkness. But sometimes we become afraid to share our thoughts and to raise our hopes . And we leave ourself alone in dark and depressing situations. But there some lucky people in life who are gifted with some guiding angles. These guiding angels not only light up the candles in that dark room but also hold  your hands and stay with you till you stand up with all your hopes and strength . These people never want something in return. They only want to help you and want to see happiness in your face . All are not so lucky to have someone who do things without a favor in return.              But if you don't have a guiding person,

GIRL AND MONEY              KING AND QUEENS in past use to send gift and luxurious thing to there daughter's in laws home cause they want to show there power and pride but the ordinary people started following that and we are following it till now as stupid goats. If you are giving gifts willingly with your love and blessings there is no problem but if that gift is brought by spending there whole life savings is not a blessing for a girl .You know in india, people take loan to educate there boys and for marriage of there daughters. And this system of giving dowry becomes a headache for parents which raises hate rate towards there girls. Some use to kill them and some married them to the one whose dowry rate is low. Don't you feel ? Don't you know that girls is not a business or thing which you can exchange , and returns of what ?what do you give her respect , money, name ? No . You don't even give her love or talk with manners so money is far away.  You love

  When you starts living for others happiness and that person choose someone else, and leaves you behind and alone its the worse feeling.               When I happily goes downstairs and search her at that moment I was happier than ever but as I turned my eyes and saw her with them sitting, giggling and ignoring me. I was devastated at that moment every thing got paused and I feel to just slap her ,I was losing my mind and than she caught an eye with me , I thought that she will wave or call me but she saw me and gave a sarcastic smile and joined them again.  I turned back and sat on the bench alone and there was tears in my eyes and my full body was shivering, I was unable to eat  and when I see in front i see people having fun with their friends laughing and when they see you they pity on your condition. Just put yourself in my place and enjoy the view where every unknown faces are looking at you and you are alone . I was unable to make any eye contact with anyone so I pu

LIFELINES         This lifelines doesn't mean the game one ,lifelines are which add little glitters in life ,they make life quite bearable. and belive me we all have the one ,for some its their family ,for someone its a beloved person or for someone a person far away from them who doesn't  know about you but you know its whole history .and we feel pleased ,cause for sometime you get a reason to laugh to notice yourself , and i know its not senseable to think but sometimes humans love's to waste there time .But logicaly its not a waste of time cause its make you feel happy . my qusetion is still unanswered that a person sitting long away can affect a person's  life .And if you don't have a person like lifeline so don't worry cause i know you can be you own lifeline .      wake up for yourself, to make yourself feel confident , to explore your self ,cause lifeline works like this ,its improve yourself i got my temperaly lifeline and he really makes me

STUCK WITH THEM ..               Its not a motivonal blog ,no, nope .i'm hear to question ,and now you will think that who am i to question cause i don't have any answer so i thought maybe you know .What you are going to do? in future ? everyone has face this question and what did we answer ,when anyone asked so i aswered some rubbiesh yep i do regert it,and its not like i don't have idea the problems is i have many idea but i am stuck with them and here 'them' means jee and neet aspireants ,and if are one of them who knows what they are doin' so you can leave this blog .But if you are one of them who don't know what they are doing so welcome in this blog. i don't have a problem with aspireants ,but what you are going to do? cause there are dozen of engineers outside without jobs and the one who is on the jobs they are quitting it and if i talk about doctors they are compare to god but than also there is so competion for becoming this type of

WORST FEELING EVER....         T his was my  teenage life's worst phase and if you wanted to feel this feeling just put yourself in my place.Let's start from starting , you know my best friend areeba ,but we were not always together there was a time when we had a bad fight and we promise that we'll never see each others face and yes we kept that for 3 years but in these 3 years she got some new friends and me too i got a friend who is always their when i need someone an as a result we got a good bond and my whole world started around her. And i throught that she is my best friend .It was only her and me let's call her 't' ,so t and i enjoyed each every moment and every moment was mavelous . But one year she said that we should get into a group of her beachmates and i said yes for happieness .MY BIGGEST MISTAKE . But the group was full of girls that are crule girl for me cause they talk on that topic of which i have no interest so i was like a girl s

MAN SHOULD ACT LIKE A MAN ?                              God has created us equally they give all of us same feeling yeah physically we made the firm but emotionally we all are same we all of appeals same feelings we feel sadness we feel hatred we feel love we feel proud etc but why there is a stereotype set for everyone there is a stereotype set for everyone by the society girls should be like this and boy should be like this girl should be quite silent beautiful obedient and boy should be like man should act like a man right don't you think ok that this rules a set by them whom we don't know but we follow them like a fool and what does this sentence mean man should act like a man and you know in this in this sentence man means what stereotype have set for a man and this stereotype doesn't include respect women respect everyone support them no they don't this stereotype include that look a boy should not be clean shaved a boy should not wear a makeup a boy

I LOVE YOU        I love you ,the three magical words which everyone wants to hear,and speacilly in their teenage and yet same thing happend to me. As i entered in teenage life as i told you my friends started to be in relatioonships and i was far behind left .Yes , and this made me desparate , i use to seek boys in marriages not everyone but them whom seem to see my type ,this was oocuering between 13 and 14. Yeah, i know it sounds ridiculous but please don't judeg me now. I was deseprate to listen these 3 word and all stupid hopes were given by movies .My mind was going straight ,a strangeer will meet me somewhere then he will fall in love and then happily after sounds so simple but not,it's not simple and love in a first sight it's all fake. Never gonaa happend.It made me to depress that i started thinking about my friend's brother and it really sucks, yeah,when i think now , i laugh out loud .Even i have not seen his face but than i realise that how nai

MODERN PARENTING ?           Parenting is hard, i don't know but as parents says but if i write in the child perspative sometimes parenting is made hard by parents. Now days parents compair their child with other students, from childhood onwards they put us in competation,which we have no idea, and they don't ask the participant that they really want to join the race or not .But i don't blame them they, think that they do it for the benefit of child but there are many ways to upbring the child intsed of putting them in compeation, but laterly when i grow up i understand that they put us in competation not only for our benifits but also for there name .Proof is that see their are many example of students doing jEE and NEET unwillingly and some did their ouccupation choice againest what they want to be. They put us in the competation at so early age that we start thinking that life is a race .Every child love their parents unconditionaly ,child never,never in thei