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Relationships.....                          R elationship is the most complicated ship. Relationship is between two person. And this ship is not a responsibility of a single person its about both of them. If you want to sail this ship ,you need to know your flaws,and your partner's too and accept them. But if you don't ,your ship will not reach to its destination or your ship can also be drown in the middle of your way. Their are many relationships but today I want to put limelight of the relationship of life partners. Life partner the word tells its meaning by its own . A person with we can spend our remaining life peaceful. Yes, they might be some problems but these 3 things can settle the problem. Love ,respect and trust . They are the pillars on which you can relie your life with your partner and it will be as easy as you can spell banana. But in our tradition, we do arrange marriages ,In which the whole re...

WE ALL GET DARK TIMES.. ...         WE ALL GET THE TIME ,when we are alone ,when there is no one ,when we really need someone back . But there no one.  We are searching for hope of light in dark room and we get nothing .  Life always don't give us what we want but we should never lose hopes cause hope is the biggest weapon we can use against darkness. But sometimes we become afraid to share our thoughts and to raise our hopes . And we leave ourself alone in dark and depressing situations. But there some lucky people in life who are gifted with some guiding angles. These guiding angels not only light up the candles in that dark room but also hold  your hands and stay with you till you stand up with all your hopes and strength . These people never want something in return. They only want to help you and want to see happiness in your face . All are not so lucky to have someone who do things without a favor in return.       ...

GIRL AND MONEY              KING AND QUEENS in past use to send gift and luxurious thing to there daughter's in laws home cause they want to show there power and pride but the ordinary people started following that and we are following it till now as stupid goats. If you are giving gifts willingly with your love and blessings there is no problem but if that gift is brought by spending there whole life savings is not a blessing for a girl .You know in india, people take loan to educate there boys and for marriage of there daughters. And this system of giving dowry becomes a headache for parents which raises hate rate towards there girls. Some use to kill them and some married them to the one whose dowry rate is low. Don't you feel ? Don't you know that girls is not a business or thing which you can exchange , and returns of what ?what do you give her respect , money, name ? No . You don't even give her love or talk with manners so money is f...

  When you starts living for others happiness and that person choose someone else, and leaves you behind and alone its the worse feeling.               When I happily goes downstairs and search her at that moment I was happier than ever but as I turned my eyes and saw her with them sitting, giggling and ignoring me. I was devastated at that moment every thing got paused and I feel to just slap her ,I was losing my mind and than she caught an eye with me , I thought that she will wave or call me but she saw me and gave a sarcastic smile and joined them again.  I turned back and sat on the bench alone and there was tears in my eyes and my full body was shivering, I was unable to eat  and when I see in front i see people having fun with their friends laughing and when they see you they pity on your condition. Just put yourself in my place and enjoy the view where every unknown faces are looking at you and you are alone . I was u...

LIFELINES         This lifelines doesn't mean the game one ,lifelines are which add little glitters in life ,they make life quite bearable. and belive me we all have the one ,for some its their family ,for someone its a beloved person or for someone a person far away from them who doesn't  know about you but you know its whole history .and we feel pleased ,cause for sometime you get a reason to laugh to notice yourself , and i know its not senseable to think but sometimes humans love's to waste there time .But logicaly its not a waste of time cause its make you feel happy . my qusetion is still unanswered that a person sitting long away can affect a person's  life .And if you don't have a person like lifeline so don't worry cause i know you can be you own lifeline .      wake up for yourself, to make yourself feel confident , to explore your self ,cause lifeline works like this ,its improve yourself i got my temperaly lifeline and...

STUCK WITH THEM ..               Its not a motivonal blog ,no, nope .i'm hear to question ,and now you will think that who am i to question cause i don't have any answer so i thought maybe you know .What you are going to do? in future ? everyone has face this question and what did we answer ,when anyone asked so i aswered some rubbiesh yep i do regert it,and its not like i don't have idea the problems is i have many idea but i am stuck with them and here 'them' means jee and neet aspireants ,and if are one of them who knows what they are doin' so you can leave this blog .But if you are one of them who don't know what they are doing so welcome in this blog. i don't have a problem with aspireants ,but what you are going to do? cause there are dozen of engineers outside without jobs and the one who is on the jobs they are quitting it and if i talk about doctors they are compare to god but than also there is so competion for becoming this type ...

WORST FEELING EVER....         T his was my  teenage life's worst phase and if you wanted to feel this feeling just put yourself in my place.Let's start from starting , you know my best friend areeba ,but we were not always together there was a time when we had a bad fight and we promise that we'll never see each others face and yes we kept that for 3 years but in these 3 years she got some new friends and me too i got a friend who is always their when i need someone an as a result we got a good bond and my whole world started around her. And i throught that she is my best friend .It was only her and me let's call her 't' ,so t and i enjoyed each every moment and every moment was mavelous . But one year she said that we should get into a group of her beachmates and i said yes for happieness .MY BIGGEST MISTAKE . But the group was full of girls that are crule girl for me cause they talk on that topic of which i have no interest so i was like a girl s...

MAN SHOULD ACT LIKE A MAN ?                              God has created us equally they give all of us same feeling yeah physically we made the firm but emotionally we all are same we all of appeals same feelings we feel sadness we feel hatred we feel love we feel proud etc but why there is a stereotype set for everyone there is a stereotype set for everyone by the society girls should be like this and boy should be like this girl should be quite silent beautiful obedient and boy should be like man should act like a man right don't you think ok that this rules a set by them whom we don't know but we follow them like a fool and what does this sentence mean man should act like a man and you know in this in this sentence man means what stereotype have set for a man and this stereotype doesn't include respect women respect everyone support them no they don't this stereotype include that look a boy should...

I LOVE YOU        I love you ,the three magical words which everyone wants to hear,and speacilly in their teenage and yet same thing happend to me. As i entered in teenage life as i told you my friends started to be in relatioonships and i was far behind left .Yes , and this made me desparate , i use to seek boys in marriages not everyone but them whom seem to see my type ,this was oocuering between 13 and 14. Yeah, i know it sounds ridiculous but please don't judeg me now. I was deseprate to listen these 3 word and all stupid hopes were given by movies .My mind was going straight ,a strangeer will meet me somewhere then he will fall in love and then happily after sounds so simple but not,it's not simple and love in a first sight it's all fake. Never gonaa happend.It made me to depress that i started thinking about my friend's brother and it really sucks, yeah,when i think now , i laugh out loud .Even i have not seen his face but than i realise that how ...

MODERN PARENTING ?           Parenting is hard, i don't know but as parents says but if i write in the child perspative sometimes parenting is made hard by parents. Now days parents compair their child with other students, from childhood onwards they put us in competation,which we have no idea, and they don't ask the participant that they really want to join the race or not .But i don't blame them they, think that they do it for the benefit of child but there are many ways to upbring the child intsed of putting them in compeation, but laterly when i grow up i understand that they put us in competation not only for our benifits but also for there name .Proof is that see their are many example of students doing jEE and NEET unwillingly and some did their ouccupation choice againest what they want to be. They put us in the competation at so early age that we start thinking that life is a race .Every child love their parents unconditionaly ,child never,n...

DO KNOW WHY?BUT BESTIES                Friendship is a ship which help you to sail even in  diffecult moments ,how heavy the sadness stom will be but this ship never let you down. I started saiing on this ship when i was in kindagarden yeah ,my first day of school ,crying as we all normally do ,i was unable to eat my lunch cause of crying badly ,i sat down in the ground with unknown faces, lonely and then a face turn towards me ,'' do you wanna play out-out ?''and with my slathering voice i said ''yes''.We both hold each others hand and walk ,and from that day till today we never leave each others hand and i wish not in the future .Her name is Areeba ,yeah i can take her name cause she is my best friend and i have all rights.when we were child we were unaware about that how long this friendship will go but we were there always for each other.And here the problem starts.As we grow up we realies that how DIFFERENT,we are from each...

GOOD GIRL!         You take birth in this socity and from at early age people starts saying about thing which good girl or good boy sshould do but as we grow up the meaning of good girls and good boys changes .And this qualities are not like save the world,peace ,our civil duties or about our enviroment ,never or it may be but i didn't seen it ,back to the points.as we grow up the parameters of judging boys and girls changes .But why? if a boy is roming out with boys or witth girls he is not looked as the same way as a girl .If he is with friends so people talks that he is populer or have a ledership quailites and if the same thing is done by a girl i don't need to tell what shit they speak form their tashbin ,words like witch, shamless girls and etc.why no same treatment? he can talk loudly ,he can laugh loudly ,he is allowed everythings and here with girls telling them things what good girl should know talk slowly ,laugh quietly ,don't see someone or sm...

UNKNOWN FEELING...           If you have read my past blogs so you know about my past crushs ,but this blog is not about them its about him .He is my present cursh and i don't want to includ his name ,so for us ,he is 'mr.curly head'. As i told y'll that my crushs doesn't last more than 1 and half month or maximum 2 month but he has break the record ,its been 3 months ,yeah.But i never felt like this before or ever .So i can say that he is my 1st serious crush and i'm not writing to tell how ADORABLE he is ,am writing this to share what thing am facing about the unknown feelings. It started as normally as everone starts and i thought that after few weeks i'll forget him but slowly  i started seeing his pics everyday ,started liking his songs and many morr stupid stuffs.as eenages do you all know,right?          But now i think he has become my habit good or bad no idea.I laugh ON his stupid jokes,sees his pics .Their is...

 CRUSH...         As i enter in teenage life i got to know a new term name 'crush'.I don't know the meaning of it ,cause i only know the meaning of crush which is used in accidents like car crush,and candy crush .My friend asked me one day who is your crush ? and i remember i said with an accident no i don't have anyone ,and now i understand that why she laughed so hard.But this meaning also match with that meaning ,accidently you see some one and started likeing him or her.so i'ts a kind of accidents,right? so laterly i got to know about the true meaning of it ,and if someone don't know so let me tell you, when you like someone secreatly and not let him know so that person whom you like is know as crush .And their is differences between crush and love .According to studies when you have a crush on someone more than 4 months so that means that you have fallin' for that person. I to have crushs, yeah, crushs cause my crushs doesn't last for mo...

Your one word          Talking is the best way of communication and the fastest after telepatie . And you have listen this proverb that action speak louder than word but sometimes your one word is enough to destroy someones life. The world powerful weapone who can shake up your soul internaly and whos marks can never be heal is words .Your words can make anyones life and can devastates once life . Word are very powerful ,its like an enengy like a power inside you ,you just have control it if you get the idea to how to control it you solve your 50% problems in your life . But who can't control their word they have the ablity to destroy their and everyone's life whom they are connected .And here dertroy doesn't mean only physical harm or mood swings, i means mental illness ,depression 'anxity, negetive thoughs and suside. I'm talking about bullying , i don't understand how a person can distube a person in this manner where he loses the hope to live, a...

PERFECT WORLD.....?                       W hat is perfect ? a thing which have everything means every quality flawless. And everyone wishes for a perfect life,perfect job, perfect family, perfect friend, perfect personality,perfect body and perfect partner . So i just thinking that if one day god listen our wishes and make this world perfect oh ,he made this world perfect let me correct myself if he makes the people perfect so what will happen? yeah, ofcause everyone will be perfect , they will have every qualities , they will be perfect in everything academics, personality, looks etc.Just imaging you open the door and enter in room where all perfect people are standing, all good looking men and women so what will be your reaction? let me tell you what normally every being going to do, they will first be excited but then, sit in the coner and be bore cause everything is perfect there will be nothing to talk ,nothing to...

     Beauty ;a word that means the quality of being very pleasing to senses or an attractive feature or personality.         Beauty lies in eye of the beholder this proverb we have leaned in lower classes but how many of us relate with .How many of us can truly say that they have never juged anyone by their looks .Frankly speaking even i don't ,because our socity make us to do that, from childhood what we see we do that ,the movies are made for our entertinment but we started jugdeing people on that bases its true ? According to a survey done in america that out of 85/100 girls are not happy with there looks, when they ask the reason so the answer was that one or the another day their friends make them feel incomfortable about there weight and looks' .That they don't match with  perfact things which idol girl have .In india the case is same jugde them on their cloths ,on their looks and espeacily for girl 'cause boys are perfect t...

HAPPILY SINGLE        Being a teenager is very tough .People thinks that it is very easy but you should ask a teenager of this generation.In this compatitive world their is competition  in every field like  in eveything .Being a girl who spend her life's 12 years in a girls' school i have exprienced differend stuff ,and the most thing i heard is all 'bout relationships specialy from 7th class .Our class was of 56 students and out of them 36 was in relationships,like it was a omg moment when i counted and awked also. Every day i used to listen some or the other stories about them and their love life and its a weired feeling for a 'single' girl to join this types of groups because we don't have stuff to talk to them and this feeling a 'single' girl will definetly understand .My intenions is not to judge  the girls but things happend with me, i am sharing that. So i stop joining that groups and whenever they see me so they change the topic or ...

WHEN I THINK ABOUT JOINED FAMILY.        I WILL START FROM STARTING like when i was a baby i never saw a joined happy family..Like we use to live in joined family but not happy ,everyday their was fights and noises ,when i was five we started living seprately like a nucler family .After seeing the fights, i used to think that i am happier then those people living in joined family .I love to avoid reletives and love to not attend family get togethers,because i started loving to live alone .ME ,my sister and our parents,and also my dog brozoo.BROZOO weird  name  ,right my mom kept ,i am still not agree but what can i say?.         Bu t a year before  last year ,i got a chance to attend my cousine brother's wedding .He was my mom's sister's son ,so it was compolsory to go as it was mom's order,so we went 'it was very hard to leave my dog for so many days..Only i know the pain.AND we went to my anut's house and what i s...

WHY I USED TO HATE BOYS..      Like as i told you in my past blog that i used to hate boy.So i am here to tell my reason why i used to hate boys.When was small like of four-five years i went to a relative's home and when my mom touch the feet of an old lady that lady said '' be happy and next time god bless you with a son''. And i didn't understand that time that why she is saying like that and it is very weird moment for everyone.And laterly i understood that why she said like that because i was the first girl  child in the house and they want a boy .I DON'T understnd why some people are so obssessive for boys ? When my mom was pregnant for the second time some of my relative used to say me to pray to God to gift me with a small brother, like what? just think they are saying this stupide thing to a five years old girl .I used to igoner this type of thing and pray to god that give me a friend who can be there every time when ever i need .And i wa...